Year 12: Love Vs Lust (Consent)

At age 16 young people are legally allowed to have sex. They may be physically ready but are they emotionally prepared?

This lesson explores the differences between love and lust and how the media and social influences affect our perception of healthy sexual relationships, consent and respect.

We readdress the pressures and look at statistics that show us that 40% of girls 13–17yrs are coerced into sexual acts before they are ready. We define and discuss the difference between love and lust. With statistics that tell us that 23% of teenage boys don’t think it’s rape when a girl says “no”, we have decided to look at the vast subject of consent.

Ideal for Year 11 and above.

Learning Objectives

Understand the importance of respecting sex as part of a healthy relationship

Explore how the media can influence both individuals in relationships and societies view of sex as a whole

Identify their own value and the value of others

Key Content

  • Review of our ‘Sex and Relationships’ lesson from year 9

  • Exploration of the meanings of love and lust

  • The role of the media in our understanding of positive relationships and sex

  • Exploration of social influences such as topical movies and their impact in desensitising us to the volume of sexual content in mainstream media

  • Key aspects of the law regarding consent, statistics, facts and personal stories of hope on this topic

  • Signposting to appropriate agencies and an opportunity to access support and guidance (including Childline, Rape Crisis, and NHS information on STIs)

  • A Christian response to this topic inc. biblical teaching on love, value and self-esteem

Key curriculum themes

  • Sexual Health

  • Relationship Values, Forming and Maintaining Respectful Relationships

  • Consent, Contraception and Parenthood, Bullying, Abuse and Discrimination

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